Questionaire - February 2014

Question :

I have a very big doubt regarding the Fate vs Will power.
i think, the fate we created upon our actions/karma in previous life times, can be changed by the will we project in this particular life time. i also believe God has given us abundant liberty, and bless us always.
One astrologer friend told me that, you donot need to do/try anything, at right time Guru(indicator of spouse for Women) will appear. I wonder these words, how is this possible!
-They say marriage is made in heaven, So, Is it predetermined ?
Is marriage predetermined or/and the person we marry predetermined ?
What about other life events, can they be changed or predetermined as well?

Questionaire - July 2013

Question:

I have a question. When matching of horoscopes happens, often pandits say that they are matching. But couples often lead partially unhappy life or even get divorced. If they are to be unhappy together or if they are to be separated then how come the horoscopes matched in the first place?